Good morning subs,
Its been a while since I last blogged. As you know from My previous posts I’ve been through a rough patch and needed a rest to get back to normal. I’m happy to say I am now back to normal, if not better than normal.
The past few weeks I have been having sessions but not posting much about them on social media. My desire to reduce the amount of information I share online is still very much at the forefront of My mind.
I’m not a big fan of social media either. I understand it’s a great too for selling yourself and your skills. However I prefer to let my work speak for itself. I’ve also stopped sharing images of subs marked bodies. As much as I love to share my creative endeavours with pride, I also feel that this is not necessary. It’s almost like a call for external validation. Validation which I don’t actually need. I’m confident in my skills and my D/s relationships with my subs. There is no need to plaster these images all over social media and beyond.
I am aware that this reduces the amount of subs who approach Me for sessions which I am fine about. Domming is not My full time career. It’s a pleasure that I indulge in a few times a week.
Like any any person who has done the deep work, I enjoy integrating My shadow side with Domming, without shame. As long as I don’t live in that space it’s fine. It’s not good for us to overindulge. I’ve been there full time when I had My dungeon many years ago out of financial necessity. It wasn’t a healthy space to be. You can’t live in one side of yourself all the time. I highly recommend Jordan Peterson’s work on integrating the shadow self if this subject interests you.
Yes this is a very deep and potentially philosophical post lol. This is who your a Mistress is, a deep analytical thinking philosophical person.
On a lighter note. It’s been a great couple of weeks with My pain sluts. I’ve been beyond impressed with their dedication and determination to take what I give them. A few have surpassed above and beyond the limits they set for themselves. It’s funny how we set such low limits for ourselves in life and make ourselves small to please others around us. This is why it’s great to have a Mistress to help you to develop your strength and confidence. It impacts all areas of your life once you do. I think My dear PSW sub can attest to this. His life has been radically changed by learning to grow and develop in the dungeon with Me. It’s wonderful to see the impact it has on people’s lives. It’s not just about pain or giving someone a good thrashing. (Lol if I did that I’d destroy them with My level of strength). For Me it’s about watching My subs flourish and the symbiotic connection W/we have. This is why I don’t offer sexual based sessions. For Me, it’s not about sexual arousal, it’s about something deeper that changes us on a profound level beyond the transient carnal nature of our beings.
And on that note I will depart. I have spaces for sessions next week on Tuesday, Thursday, and Saturday. Then My availability will be intermittent as I work on a personal project for a couple of weeks.
As always, I’m looking forward to seeing you all in the dungeon very soon. Have a great week everyone.
Manchester Mistress Madox